Dating

How Do I Talk To My Partner About Bondage?

The abbreviation BDSM is accepted all over the world to represent sexual techniques established on the exchange of power. In fact, this is a relationship between a slave and a master in all their variants – from a brief physical impact to complete control over the life of another person. 

Two meanings of this popular BDSM term

You should distinguish between 2 meanings of Bondage:

  • Bondage as an erotic BDSM practice manifested in the form of restriction of physical mobility with the specific purpose of obtaining both sexual and aesthetic pleasure. 
  • Bondage – special means that help limit the submissive’s mobility. It can be both improvised means (rope, harness), and various BSDM accessories that can be bought in any sex shop.

It should be noted that the use of improvised means for binding, no matter how harmless they are, can sometimes lead to painful injuries, swelling, and impaired blood circulation. Use ready-made BDSM accessories from the arsenal of intimate stores – they will help you enjoy bondage and eliminate any negative aspects of any BDSM practice.

Talking to my partner about bondage

Want to try bondage, but don’t know how to approach this idea with your partner? Sometimes it’s easier to show than to tell. If your partner likes it, you can show him videos of different bondage games that you would like to try.

Bondage video is a great way to introduce your partner to different types of female pleasure games. There are also hundreds of videos on YouTube explaining various aspects of bondage to help start a conversation with your partner. You can then discuss what you both want to try and encourage them to share their fantasies with you. After you talk about what you both want to try, discuss your boundaries, and come up with a safe word, the fun begins.